Goal: Help your teen prepare to move out on their own

Hey parents

Preparing your teens for their first independent living experience can seem daunting for you and them, but it’s really important.

Here's a list of things you could do that will help.

Ensure your teen understands basic financial principles like budgeting, saving, and investing. Help them open a bank account if they haven't already and guide them through creating a realistic budget. Discuss the costs associated with living alone, such as rent, utilities, groceries, and other expenses.

Before your child leaves home, make sure they know how to take care of themselves. This includes cooking basic meals, cleaning, laundry, and basic home maintenance. Also, it's important they know how to grocery shop efficiently and healthily. Basic first aid and fire prevention is important too.

Teach your teen about the intricacies of renting an apartment. This includes understanding a lease agreement, what a security deposit is, the importance of paying bills on time, and knowing their tenant rights.

Talk to your child about personal safety, both at home and when they're out and about. Discuss what to do in case of emergencies, the importance of locking doors and windows, and safe practices when using appliances.

Let them take more responsibility at home. This could mean paying a bill, contributing to the grocery shopping, or taking care of household chores. The aim is to give them a taste of what they'll be dealing with when living on their own.

Discuss the importance of maintaining good health, including regular exercise, healthy eating habits, and getting enough sleep. Also, teach them about scheduling doctor's appointments and filling prescriptions if necessary.

Maintain an open line of communication with your teen. Let them know that they can always turn to you for advice or if they're facing any problems. While the goal is independence, they should know that it's okay to ask for help.

Encourage your teen to maintain close relationships with friends and family and help them understand the importance of a solid support network. If they're moving to a new city, encourage them to join clubs or societies to meet new people.

Help your teen understand the importance of balancing work, leisure, and rest. Good time management skills are essential when living independently.

Your teen needs to understand that their actions have consequences, and they're responsible for their decisions. This includes paying bills on time, adhering to their lease agreement, and respecting others' property and space.